5 Ways Having A Dog Changes Your Life

boy and his dog

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Dogs and mankind have been companions for thousands of years. There is no clear consensus on how man and dog became friends but many speculate it first started during the hunt. Imagine thousands of years ago when mankind was out hunting for big game. Then take into consideration the wolves that would have been following for scraps once a kill was made. It would not have taken very long for the wolves to figure out that hanging around the guys with spears was a good idea at dinner time. Over time the relationship grew so that wolves and humans became traveling companions, and wolves starting evolving into the dogs we have today.

There are literally hundreds of different breeds of dogs. Some dogs have been bred throughout the years to bring out certain characteristics such as dogs that are hypoallergenic. Other dogs are bred for their intelligence and working abilities while other dogs are bread specifically for their looks. We even have what has been termed “designer dogs” which is usually two purebred dogs bred together.

Dogs have the ability to decrease stress, make a person smile, and create a bond with their human owners that only exists with very few animals. Dogs can literally change a person’s life, as therapy dogs do for their patients every day. Here are a few more reasons that a dog can change a life:

  1. Dogs can help humans stay physically fit – Owning a dog means that an individual will get out of the house at least one a day for a walk. Dogs require at least 20 minutes every day (preferably twice a day) to get outside and play, and to expel the huge amounts of energy they have. Even an older dog will require a walk at least once a day. This will help an individual to lose weight and also for their stress levels to decrease. Walking will also help to lower high blood pressure, which is a leading cause of heart problems today.
  2. Happy, happy, happy – A dog will make a person happy. If you are feeling blue one of the best things you can do is pair up with a dog. It has been proven that when disaster strikes, having a dog nearby will help to decrease stress levels. No matter how depressed or unhappy a person feels, getting that slobbery kiss will immediately perk up the day. Dogs are non-judgmental and will love their human companion no matter what.
  3. Meet new people – Taking your dog to the park, or for a walk, or even to dog obedience class gives a person the ability to get out there and meet new people.
  4. Save a dog from destruction – Millions of dogs and cats are euthanized every year because homes cannot be found for them. Adopting a shelter dog can actually help two dogs; you are giving a loving home to the dog being adopted and allowing space for another dog in the shelter, who now has the chance to find a good home.
  5. A dog’s love is unconditional – Not feeling attractive? A dog does not care. Not feeling good because you’re sick? Doggy will sit by you and keep you warm all day. Dogs do not judge, nor do they question. They accept us as we are with no expectations, except to be loved. If only humans could be that forgiving.

Dogs can improve both the physical and the mental health of human beings. They love us unconditionally and we should be taking care to do the same for them.

5 Reasons To Try Scuba Diving

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Underwater diving has been around for centuries. In ancient times people would dive on shipwrecks to try and salvage the goods it contained. Thanks to modern invention we can now dive underwater for long periods of time for both job related and recreational purposes. Scuba diving is one of the most exhilarating and at the same time, the most peaceful sports in the world. While scuba diving you can be engulfed in a world of silence with only your breathing and the local fish population to keep you company. Then suddenly you encounter a shark or other big fish which will set your heart racing. There are many reasons why scuba diving has become a popular sport around the world.

  1. Socialize with actual people – Even if it is just your dive buddy, you will be socializing with a live person. It’s even more usual for a group dive, which will put you in contact with even more people who share your love of diving.
  2. See wildlife in their natural habitat – who wants to watch a whale swim round and round in a tank? Seeing whales, turtles, dolphins, all in their natural habitat is one of the most exhilarating experiences available. If you’ve ever wondered, “What do dolphins eat?” or “How do turtles swim?” you may get to see for yourself. If you are really adventurous try swimming with sharks (with professionals along, or course). Viewing marine life in its natural setting is much more eco-friendly than visiting a marine “park”.
  3. Diving helps to keep you in shape – Swimming underwater will help build up lean muscles as well as keeping the body’s cardiovascular system in good working order.
  4. Take a vacation – Who doesn’t love to go on vacation? It brings the stress levels down and the endorphins up. Divers usually like to try new locations as often as possible and what could be better than warm waters and sunny beaches which are diver friendly? A person doesn’t need a boat to scuba dive – if you’re near the ocean you can simply put on your gear and wade right into the water.
  5. Calm, relaxed breathing – When in scuba gear one of the first things taught to new divers is how to breathe properly. In fact in the world of scuba diving it is the most important thing. So in learning how to breathe properly for scuba diving you are also learning meditative breathing. Meditative breathing is shown to help relieve stress and calm the mind.

If you are a lover of the ocean than scuba diving is for you. Finding a good scuba instructor who is a certified professional is the only way to start a diving education. Diving with friends is fine, but learning from a professional instructor will give you a better education in this challenging sport. Scuba diving is fun, but it is not to be taken lightly. Remember that safety first is the key to both an enjoyable experience and staying alive in the briny depths.

How To Chase Passion & Follow Your Dreams

The Buried Life

The Buried Life

In a previous blog post, I wrote about doing stuff that makes you feel alive. But while its great to seek adventure and find things to do that are out of the norm, its easy to neglect the most important thing in all of our lives – finding passion in your work.

Most of will spend at least 40% of our waking ours working – some of as even more. Life is short, but if you hate what you’re doing, it’s going to be awful long. Here are a few tips to help you out if you’re on a path that doesn’t lead to passion.

1. Have The Guts To Chase Your Dream

It takes guts to chase your dream. It may sound cliche, but it’s true. It takes an inner strength that everyone has within themselves, but many of us never exercise.

No matter how you cut it, if you’re currently trapped in a job and you’re scared to leave the security of it to pursue something else, you’re going to have to find a way to overcome that fear. I personally like to check out quotes about strength from individuals I admire and respect, but you may have your own way. Whatever it is, start working on building strength and character in every aspect of your life, so when the time comes, you’ll have the guts to follow through and not give up.

2. You Have Time

That being said, there are steps you can take to minimize risk. If you want to start a business or pursue a creative dream, who said you have to quit your job? Instead of saying “I don’t have time”, make the time. How can you not have time for your dreams? You can’t wake up an hour earlier before you go to work? You can steal a couple hours at nigh after the kids are asleep? You can’t devote a weekend morning/afternoon to chasing your passion? Stop being helpless and take responsibility for your own life.

3. Distinguish Between Reality and Fiction

For whatever reason, we’ve been programmed by society to think that – if our most obvious dreams (becoming a rockstar, actor, billionaire tycoon etc) are out of grasp due to physical limitations, the only alternative is to get a job we hate and grind out our days.

That’s simply not true. You might never be an NBA player, but you could be a sports reporter, physical trainer, agent, even a blogger. You might never be a rockstar, but you can teach music, perform locally, become a producer, cover the music scene – the internet has made it easier than ever to make a living chasing you passion. So go out and do it, and stop saying you can’t.

3 Tips For Your Next Salary Negotiation

negotiationYou may be good at your job, but that doesn’t mean you’re getting paid what you’re worth. Does the thought of sitting down at a table across from your both and negotiating your salary with your boss

1. Show Numbers

If you’re going to demand a higher salary, you have to backup your argument with numbers. Too many employees spend their time focusing on what they want, when really they should be thinking of things from the employer’s perspective. If you were the employer, do you have a financial incentive to give you the raise? Try to calculate exactly how much value and revenue you’ve brought in for the company in recent months. If you can’t do that, then you’ve got your work cut out for you.

2. Get Your Employer To Make The First Offer

It might be temping to go in guns a blazing and demand a raise, but the key to having power in the negotiation is getting your employer to show that they want to keep you first. If you can do that, then you can go in to negotiate your salary confident that the employer is anxious to keep you on board.

3. Show Enthusiasm

This goes without saying, but if you can show a real passion for your work, it makes you seem irreplaceable. People who truly care about their job and excel at their work are rare, and if you do great work and you’re enthusiastic, your employer will do everything within their power to keep you on their team.

Keep in mind you’re not going to be paid the salary of a Neurosurgeon (yes, they make a lot) just because you apply these 3 tips. For one, they spend nearly 15 years in school and residency to get paid what they do, and secondly, its important to consider what you’re worth to the company when performing negotiations with yourself. This is where its very important to be 100% honest with yourself. If you deserve to be paid like a brain surgeon, then by all means, ask for it, but unless you can be objective, you may overshoot or undershoot your number. If it helps, consider getting a second opinion before going in for salary negotiations. It might give you a boost in confidence, and more importantly, it might give you a more objective picture of your worth.

For more tips on how to negotiate your salary, check out this article.

What’s The Best Way To Keep Coffee Fresh?

Coffee is a great way to wake up and for coffee drinkers there is really no alternative out there but most of us aren’t getting the best coffee possible because we aren’t storing it correctly. Whether you operate with just a standard coffee machine, have a French press or a single shot coffee maker, you can still enjoy a better coffee drinking experience by keeping your coffee fresh, whether you’re producing the coffee from freshly ground beans or k cups.

The best way to get the freshest coffee is to grind it up yourself, preferably right before drinking it. Grinding the coffee ensures you that your coffee will always be completely fresh and will retain most of the flavors in the beans. Continue reading

Doing Things That Make You Feel Alive

What is it about danger that excites and delights?

For most people, the fact of the matter is that climbing Everest is not considered a real option, despite the fact that its possibly one of the most incredible accomplishments accessible to a person of average ability. Why is that? Aside from the time and money, its the danger involved. Even the slight risk of death makes most things off the table for the average person. Continue reading